best place to meet single men
hey there Adam little treat from sexy confidence calm where I hope the 21st century woman create a love life that she absolutely loves and there’s actually a very special video because this is part of my relaunch for my unity membership program so I’m actually gonna answer a question that came from one of my unity members let’s hear it I’m a smart successful woman but can’t seem to meet the guys who meet the same standard where can I meet some more smart successful guys Amanda I feel you and I’ve gone through the same challenge in my own life back when I was single and wanting to meet smarter successful women myself so for starters my biggest piece of advice is don’t allow habit to dictate where is that you go out and meet people chances are you’re going to be going out with your girlfriends they’re going to want to go out to the bar to the club wherever by the way you can meet great people at a bar that is possible but you don’t want to focus all of your attention just based on where your friends are going you want to make sure you fish where the fish are swimming and definitely fish where the smart fishers are swimming a quick funny but true story I had a neighbor her neighbors Judy and she was single and this was back probably 30 years ago and she wanted to meet a doctor she just had that goal want to make it happen want to meet a smart person so every single day she would eat lunch at the hospital she would literally drive five miles down the street to go ahead and eat lunch at a hospital for those of you who’ve eaten at a hospital food god blessed this woman but you know what after six months of doing this every single day she once sat down next to a doctor before he knew it they’re married and now he’s one of the leading doctors in the entire world did she like doing that every single day no did it accomplish her goal hell yes now you don’t have to take this story literally and leave your house and go to a hospital every single day that’s a little bit weird that story’s a little bit weird but it kind of does prove an important point which is sometimes it takes a little sacrifice and takes you stepping outside of your comfort zone to go out there and meet people in different social scenarios so a few places that might work for you are just places that match your own interests maybe there’s a speaker series in town you can go see you you know a special speaker on a certain topic maybe there’s an author in town talking about something you can go to that speaker series you’re going to meet other intellectual people maybe you go to a flood a philanthropy event go to places where they’re going to be the type of men and type of women of course who donate money and try to help others of course that’s going to have a lot of usually pretty well-educated smart people also go ahead and try out networking events networking events I’ve found in my experience our especially the ones I seem to go to are very male-dominated so you can go to those types of events and be able to meet a lot of men who are clearly who have their together also maybe their social clubs in your area definitely Google in your particular town social clubs finally a great idea is try to adult education courses in your town and certainly in Boston we have a ton of incredible adult education courses depending on where you live you might have similar things you know go take a writing course take a comedy course whatever it is you’re going to find people who are interested in learning and growing in their own life now this list goes on I mean you can if you do live in a city go ahead and research that city go to eventbrite.com there’s a ton of events there’s a ton of things going on in your area but most importantly just get smart about we’re going no pun intended seriously get smart about it and put effort into this area of your life if you really sat down and put some thought into the type and places first get clear is the type of guy that you want and then start thinking where would that type of guy go and put the effort into finding those places they do exist in your area you just have to find them so if you enjoyed this video and you want me to actually be able to personally answer questions like this that might come up in your own dating life or something maybe more specific then for a short period of time I’m actually relaunching my membership program it’s called unity and we’ve completely revamped the program and we’ve redesigned this entire thing you get access to a private forum where I’m going to answer all of your questions you can join a monthly coaching call where I answer all the Unity members questions like this you can also be able to get early access to these YouTube videos just like this you get access before the millions of other women who are waiting to watch these videos and finally you’ll get personalized weekly texts just from yours truly that are going to inspire you to get out there it’s a coaching program for women like you who want that support stay on track to find that guy that you really want so thank you so much for watching and of course on top of that you can click on this link you know that we put up this entire time definitely check out unity and on top of that if you enjoyed this video please give it a like on YouTube that always helps me out a lot and don’t forget to subscribe for more videos just like this every single week thank you so much for watching and I’ll speak to you soon bye bye …