As a 17-year-old boy, I have been dealing with a few acne scars on my face that are thankfully starting to fade away. However, despite my age, I have never dated before and don't even know where to start. When I was 14, I had a crush on a classmate, but I never had the courage to pursue anything beyond chatting online. And just recently, I confessed my feelings to another friend, but she was already in a relationship, so I knew it was a no-go.
I'm quite shy and introverted, which makes it difficult for me to initiate any romantic conversations or gestures. I tend to be overly respectful towards girls, and while that's a good trait, I think it often prevents me from getting into a relationship. I realize that I need to be a bit more flirty and confident, but it's not easy for me.
At this point, I just want to find someone who can understand me. I feel like older girls are more mature and could appreciate my intentions better. I'm turning 18 in February, so I'm looking for someone who's a year or two older than me. I'm hoping to find someone who can bring out the best in me and make me feel comfortable enough to open up.
As I look ahead to the future, I can't help but feel a sense of concern about the potential for tension between myself and my future girlfriend. It's as if I can already sense the underlying issues that may arise and cause friction in our relationship. Despite these worries, I remain hopeful that we will be able to navigate any challenges that come our way and build a strong, lasting bond together.