Here are some of my trials and errors that I am sharing with you so you don’t have to experience the same thing.
Be clean. Shower daily, do proper skin care, and just in general take care of yourself.
Be nice. If you’re mean to other people and she sees that, you’re cooked. Even if it’s just your friends. I learned that one the hard way. Also this should be obvious, but don’t be mean to her. That’s a surefire way to make her hate you.
Don’t be creepy. Dear god, DO NOT BE CREEPY. You say one weird thing to her, and it’s over for you. I would say you can kiss her goodbye, but the restraining order she’ll get on you will say otherwise.
Get to know her before asking her out. She could look like a 10, but then she will pull a 180 on you and turn out to be a furry or some weird shit. Learned that one the hard way too. Watch out for the red flags 🚩
Be confident. Or at least act the part. Don’t just leave her a note and walk away. Actually talk to her and ask her out. The worst she can say is “Ew” or “No”.
Don’t go out of your league. If she’s a 10, and you’re a 4, I would suggest for your well being to lower your standards.
Know when to quit. If she shows no interest in you, or If you ask her and she says no, that’s pretty much the end of it. Just don’t push it or you will get your heart broke.
Make yourself known to her. I understand that not a lot of people asking for dating advice on reddit are starting quarterbacks at their school. So try to get her attention another way. Here are some good and bad ways:
Good ways ✅
Get physically fit. Although it would be your best bet, you don’t exactly have to go to the gym and pump iron or play a sport. You could get away with just the basics. Running, push ups, sit ups, crunches, pull ups, etc. Most girls will dig a sleeper build.
Improve your looks. Use proper skin care, don’t have a shitty haircut (man buns and mullets count as shitty), if you have shitty facial hair, such as a neckbeard, shave that shit off.
Show signs of interest. Now this could go very well and very badly depending on how you do it. Go out of your way to talk to her. But don’t leave her favorite candy on her desk or some weird shit like that.
Bad ways ❌
Wear bright clothing. Don’t dress like a damn highlighter to school.
Simping. Don’t offer to do her homework for her and shit. That’s just gonna get you played in the end.
Publicly embarrass yourself. Horrible idea.
Fighting. No girl is going to want you after watching you fight someone. They’re just going to think “What a dumbass”.
Being disruptive in class. Not only will the girls hate you, but everyone will.
Now this last one may be a bit tough. But you will probably be better off deleting reddit. I’ve seen guys talk about using reddit and girls running in the opposite direction from them after they said it. It’s a huge turn off for most girls.
That’s all the advice that I can think of off the top of my head. Just be careful and don’t make the same mistakes that I did. Any questions feel free to ask.