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I promise you one thing after this video you will never be single again because I’m gonna show you everything you ever need to know how to take a girl from point A to fully being your girlfriend and falling in love think of this I’m almost gonna build a sales process for you I’m gonna build you a CRM I’m gonna show you step by step how to close on women from A to Z because most guys over complicate things and this is stuff that you don’t learn unless you learn with experience most of you are stuck in the same position you’re still single because of two reasons one you obsess over a singular girl because you have nothing right because you have experienced nothing because you believe in true love which is my second point you are obsessed over a single girl in your small town thinking that this is the only girl that will satisfy your happiness because she’s the only girl in your vicinity she’s probably the only girl that’s giving you a little bit of attention you’d start to fantasize about what you’re life will be like about getting married about kids about this that and the other so because you’ve put so much pressure onto the singular relationship one she’s already turned off by you right she can sense desperation women can smell desperation on men it’s palpable it’s like it’s like a cologne on you almost she’s turned off at this point on top of that because you’re being so desperate you’re further pushing her away and the more you push her away the more invested you get it’s this vicious cycle that keeps you single and then on top of that the second thing that’s keeping you this way so you’re believing in true love right you are so obsessed with the girl that you do not even know like that girl has given you no sort of value yet and you believe in your head that you are in love right we’re look we’re visual creatures right you fell in love visually you fell in love because she had a great body because she looked beautiful this that and the other you’re not truly in love and I would even say that whole BS that movie in Hollywood I’ve given you of true love and of the one think about it this way everybody believes in true love and magically somehow everyone’s the one is that same girl that’s within your like five mile radius it’s impossible statistically impossible you don’t find the one you just find a beautiful girl that you love her characteristics that match perfectly with yours and that’s the girl that you end up wanting to spend the rest of your life with but usually that beautiful girl will only be a girl that’s within your vicinity that you have access to which is why in this video I want to give you as much access as possible so you can find those characteristics that you’re actually looking for you get rid of these first two problems everything else I’m about to give you it’s cake work because it’s truly that simple well see if you’re starting from Ground Zero you’re single you want you’re watching this video and you’re realizing Jose has a point Jose has a point I am obsessed I’m also a loser you’re already off to a great start because when you start with nothing you got nothing to lose this is why it’s a numbers game for you right this is the most important step again remember I’m gonna treat this like a sales funnel almost now if you’ve ever done anything in sales you also understand that it is a numbers game and you want to outreach as much as possible that means you should usually have a few verticals right you have your dating apps you want to be on if you’re single a loser you’ve never had a girl you’re trying to expand your reach as much as possible you want to be in every single dating app possible you also have day pickup right day pickup is usually better than night pickup night pickup the quality of girls are different right if you go to the bars and they’re drunk this that the other if you’re just trying to like sleep all night obviously night pickups for you but day pickup is for trying to find that beautiful girl that right girl right the smart girl the girl that you actually want to build a relationship with they pick up is great right you go to your coffee shops we’re talking about the gym we’re talking about school we’re talking about universities even if you don’t go to them we’re talking about libraries we’re talking about parts right these are places where women are usually attending and they’re doing some sort of positive activity which is why you can find certain quality of women in these locations you also have social media right your code DME and ultimately you have hobbies and activities right so if you start picking up activities I don’t care what they are chess spinning class yoga uh pilot I don’t care what activities you pick up martial arts uh I mean maybe not martial arts but like activities where you know it’s a high concentration of beautiful women that you can start to join those activities and connecting with them becomes so much easier because you guys are already clicked up when you when you join these groups right so imagine you’re doing all four verticals and then you start putting a goal on yourself again similar to a sales funnel right you start putting a goal on your software right for a day pickup you want to talk to one girl a day for uh dating apps you want to max out your swipes on every app for dming you want to DM 10 girls a day for activities you want to make sure you do one activity a week where you can connect with a girl what’s happening is that over the course of a week over the course of a month you’re going to be connecting to with anywhere between 60 to 100 women now imagine your close rate is two percent which means two percent out of the hundred that you talk to actually are interested enough to give you their phone number that’s two girls bro that’s already two girls you did not have a month ago before watching this video it is that simple and remember because you’re starting from Ground Zero you got nothing to lose in everything to gain and that everything is those two girls that you would have never had contact with had you not listened to me in this video that’s just one month bro that’s just 30 days and 30 days I’m getting you from zero to two you didn’t even have one before think about that and what does a year of this look like just imagine a year of this you’re listening to me for one year but I know what you’re thinking Jose all right what’s the process right all right so you got the number you’re gonna easily fumble the bag because you got no experience this takes me to the method that I’ve always talked about three two one go look I don’t like giving you one-liners and you know charismatic pickup lines because at the end of the day if you’re not confident enough the pickup line is not going to come across like you want it the pickup line is not going to do what it needs to do so the best thing you can do is to be authentic at that point and what I am going to give you is like mental hacks to help you get over that bump of fear that bump of being rejected or approaching a girl one of the best ones I call it the three two one method right so you’re gonna try to do these these connections with all these women across all your verticals right so you have day pick up you have you have social media you have dating apps you have activities and hobbies right when you approach these girls this is the hard part this is the hard part that first month is going to be difficult for you that’s why the three two one method is great right as soon as you you see a girl I don’t care if you’re not super attracted or are attracted to her you shouldn’t start thinking about maybe she has a boyfriend or she’s too pretty think about none of that as soon as you see a girl it should be like an initial gut reaction three to one and you just start walking right again I don’t care if you’re not physically attractive to her I don’t care if you think she’s too beautiful for you stop thinking about all that because it’s that worry that stops you right once you start thinking ah but she’s not too attractive so what you do is every loser guy does this right when they see a girl that’s somewhat beautiful or maybe a little bit too beautiful you’ll make every excuse in your head as to why now she’s not your type it’s almost like you’re rejecting her in your head so you don’t have to force yourself to grow a pair of balls to go up to talk to her bro I’ve talked to so many guys it is the same process every guy does the same thing so instead of you starting to Auto convince yourself to not approach or to say oh she’s the good for me or whatever other excuse Under the Sun forget about all of it three two one approach right like it’s almost like you’re removing all thought and once you’re there yeah you’re probably gonna stutter a little bit and this is mostly for day pickup but I’ve noticed something great in humanity and just us as men too when you put your back against the wall when you put yourself in an uncomfortable situation you have no other option but two you will either die or you will either survive you will evolve and most of the time we are genetically engineered to thrive and survive it’s in our human nature so what’s going to happen is you’re going to have to evolve you’re going to have to survive as soon as yourself you put yourself in that uncomfortable situation you’re not going to stutter to death you’re going to have to figure it out you’re going to have to put confidence for summer you’re going to have to put conversation from thin air and yes the first couple times that you start evolving it’s going to be weird but I promise you by the end of that month it’s gonna be like second nature to you and I’m gonna make it even easier for you I’m going to give you your opening line hi my name is hi my name is Jose nice to meet you and I shall say her name that’s that is that is your best opening line scientifically proven there’s actually a study they tried every pickup line Under the Sun and then they also tried this one this is the line that got the most responses because it doesn’t pivot on your confidence and it pivots on human Nature’s tendency to just be nice right when you introduce yourself the nice thing to do is to also introduce yourself back they’ll say your name and now you’ve started your conversation which 99 of the time will lead to a conversation you like you can take my word on that now again that’s for day pickup for dating apps that’s easy right you’re just swiping for social media it’s a little bit more complicated uh mainly because your social status will matter right if you’re an account with no pictures you got 20 followers it’s gonna be very hard to get responses and versus obviously if you’re an influencer or you’re verified that’s gonna pivot your response rate a lot but for the most part the highest success rate that I’ve ever seen is responding to a story if you see a girl that’s already active in her story she’s sharing her name whether she’s eating what she’s doing and you respond to whatever she’s doing at that time you’re gonna have the highest chance of we’re actually viewing the messages and then engaging back because it’s a genuine response right you got to keep in mind that when people are posting stories think about yourself it’s human nature when you post a story about your food what do you do the first thing you do is you go to the comments the messages what are people saying it’s like when you post an actual picture right when you post a picture or a tick tock the first thing you’ll do you’ll go to the comments section so if you want to increase your chances of visibility respond to a story I know what you’re probably thinking Jose you’re a genius you’re right you’re God right I got you at two girls and I’ve also showed you the process to even initiate that conversation but I’m also going to show you the contact process right how do you acquire the con remember this is like a sales process bro it’s so interesting how closing a deal and closing a woman it’s the exact same thing when you go in there and you start making contact you have to go in there with a goal similar to a sales process right the sales process it could be customer Discovery it could be it could be marketing it could be trying to close with you you have to go in there with a goal in mind your goal is simple get content right you want to have contact information your goal should not be going to the date your goal should not be getting a compliment but your goal should be get contact information and get out as quick as possible remember you’re just starting off you’re probably nervous it’s very easy for you to Fumble the back so the first thing you should do is get that contact information so after you you know you’ve introduced yourself maybe you’ve talked a little bit let’s say it’s let’s say it’s at an activity or hobby you talk about whatever is spin class how hard spin class was and how much you liked it and how great is it is for cardiovascular after about a minute or two you guys are giggling ask for her contact information now this is this is usually tiered what does that mean if she gives you her phone number this is the highest level of Interest think of this like a hot lead it’s burning this is an easy close she gives you her phone number you have to think about it she just gave you one of her most personal points of contact she’s giving you that because she’s somewhat interested in you this is why it is a hotly she gives you a phone number that’s a home run bro that’s an easy easy step onto a date let’s say she gives you her Snapchat cool I call these warm leads right it’s very close to a hot lead Snapchat’s more personal right usually close friends and family and stuff like that so she gave you something a personal point of contact you’ll have to do a little bit of work to get to the date but it’s still a high level of Interest let’s say she gives you Instagram it’s a tough one bro it’s a tough one this is I would call this a cold lead you know she doesn’t like you that much her Instagram’s not that personal if anything worst case scenario just another follower to her um you’re gonna have to do a lot of legwork uh and again right when you’re talking to so many women and you notice some are giving you Instagrams forget them bro if you’re getting phone numbers you focus on them right remember you’re going to talk to 60 to 100 women in a month what about a year so don’t don’t don’t get too butt hurt about this and the more you do it you’re gonna notice they’re gonna start increasing their level of commitment when they see that social proof that all right she gives you she gives you her Instagram but she sees your Instagram and your Instagram you’re already friends with several girls when she sees that social proof she’s going to be more committed to actually respond to your message and you can get her to that phone number or that Snapchat or the date but when you’re starting don’t even don’t don’t even worry about that bro that’s a cold lead and then she gives you Tick Tock or Facebook bro that’s freezing cold she has no interest in you but that’s why these are great right when you ask for a point of contact and she gives you any of these now you can read her it’s almost like you’re reading her mind and she doesn’t know that right you’re understanding exactly what’s going through her mind and now you can dictate your next steps right when she gives you the time up to you know all right this girl’s interested you can get her to a date which gives you the ladder too you know all right this girl’s not that interested my skill game’s not on that level yet so now you know I’m gonna avoid my self-rejection I’m not gonna take it to the next level we’re talking about taking it to the next level you should want to level up when you start leveling up physically right and across the board when I say level up I’m talking about Style I’m talking about your Fitness I’m talking about your money when you have that as you’re so focused in your life it’s gonna do two things one it’s gonna give you access to more beautiful women so if you’re used to only talking to three fours and fives as soon as you get jacked you build you’re better your style you’re better your grooming and you make more money right your car your dress different your house is different your apartment’s different you’re gonna see that now you’re gonna go from six seven eights and nines which is at the end of the day what everybody wants but what you’re also going to see is that it’s gonna increase your close rate remember what I talked about right you’re talking to 100 women and you’re noticing that only two percent are actually interested that’s fine that’s a good that’s a good start as you start leveling up you’re gonna see that close rate increase to three percent to four percent to ten percent the more high value you become as a man right the higher you get or the closer you get to that one percent across all your life not just money with your style with your Fitness with your grooming across everything the higher your close rate becomes so now when you do the same process instead of only getting two yeses you’re going to be getting 10 you’re going to be getting 15 and your life will incrementally increase and become easier so yes while this is a video on how to get a girlfriend and forever again stop being single single-handedly the best thing you can do for your life is focusing on your which is why you should bro you should care about how you dress you should care about your grooming you should care about yo April 1st your boy’s dropping a new Essentials collection you already know and when I design clothing I am playing around I’m designing clothes to make sure you look as good as possible and this time yo I even brought in designers I wanted to make sure I was designing Essentials and Basics across the board three designers Camila now Trey bro 45 pieces reap it go go to accentures right now we’re sold out for almost everything for a reason right our pieces do what I intend and it’s and it’s to make you look as attractive as possible for low effort because that’s the thing for men to dress good for you to level up especially with your style which is the first thing you should do it’s easy when you have the right brand and that’s what I want with Essentials I want it to be easy for you to look better and this April 1st 45 pieces I promise you they will sell out they always do especially with their bro these their audiences are large too so Their audience is going to eat up a lot of it I don’t want you guys to miss out put a reminder on your phone right now if you want to start dressing better leveling up yourself put a reminder on your phone April 1st 10 a.m Eastern Essentials launching I promise you you’re going to want to get there early because this stuff is going to fly bro but ultimately on top of all of this man I do want to tell you one last thing don’t be an ass just don’t be an ass man like what I’m giving you you should take with a high level of responsibility you should be treating women with respect with love not to be leading them on not to be piping girls and leading them on making them think that you actually love them when you don’t you should treat this as a as an amazing part of The Human Experience bro getting to connect with other people and more importantly getting to learn what you like and dislike right this is this is what I said in the beginning I want to give you access to as many women as possible so you don’t get stuck with something you do not like I want you to see what type of body type you like right what type of characteristics you want to motivate a woman do you want a woman that’s driven do you want a woman that’s grounded you’re gonna see all of this as you talk to different women and that’s ultimately your your final goal because what you’re going to notice is going to happen is as you’re you know you’re going to these first dates and you’re going to notice that a particular girl stands out to you you just vibrate with her you feel comfortable with her you can laugh with her she she has what you’re looking for you’re going to want to set just naturally you’re going to want to set up another date with her even though you’re running the system that I’m telling you even though you might have dates planned out throughout the month there’s specific girls are going to stick out to you naturally that you’re just going to want to date more with her and it’s going to be like this natural filtering process that as the days goes on the months goes on you know you’re going to notice certain girls you want to spend more and more time with her and you’re going to be setting up consecutive dates with her because you just you just Vibe right with them once you find that girl there’s gonna be one that’s gonna stick out from the bunch you’re going to want to spend more time with her over everyone else that has the characteristics you’re looking for that just assimilates well that supports your vision commit that’s when you commit that’s when you settle down that’s when you have the girl you find a mission bro mission complete you have a beautiful girl with the characteristics you want that’s overly obsessed with you and then through the process you’ve built yourself up to be that guy to be the one person to be the guy that’s going to keep her in love with you for the rest of your life you’re welcome you’ll never be single again …