okay besties it’s been a while since we’ve done relationship advice this is how you know if your relationship is gonna last let’s get into it honestly it all comes down to majorly one thing when you first meet that person you’re so excited and you’re so keen on like getting them to like you that you put in the most effort the problem with a lot of relationships is that people think that after a few months you can stop that effort no oh my god if you’re in a relationship or the next time you’re in a relationship after a few months look at the person you’re with are they still trying as hard as when they first liked you because it’s so painful when someone changes but the real ones know you need to do the little things you need to make that person feel like you still have a crush on them make them feel valued you can get comfortable but don’t stop trying …