women wanting men
the number one thing women look for in a partner now Andrew huberman is a neuroscientist at Stanford University School of Medicine who is most known for his podcast the huberman lab where he discusses science and science-based tools I was recently watching an interview of his where he discussed what women want in a long-term partner and he said it’s more important than any other feature across all cultures is that the woman reports that she sought someone who is kind to them not necessarily kind to everybody but kind to them men in the comments go obviously this woman still needs to find you attractive and desire to pursue a romantic relationship with you a no means no no matter how kind you are but one of the largest most comprehensive studies to date of 68 000 women in 180 countries found that kindness was the most important trait with nearly 90 of women thinking it was a top priority close behind were supportiveness and intelligence whereas things like an attractive body were only valued by 22.3 percent of the women more than Financial Security or attractiveness what shows up again and again in the data is that women tend to pair up long term with someone who is kind to them now according to the senior scientists at the Kinsey Institute and Lead researcher on this project Virginia J Vietnam kindness is the key to the human capacity for forming long-term social bonds so essential to our Evolution this is the human brain unconsciously prioritizing what matters and noticing physical imperfections less intrinsic goodness and shared values are what drives real romance but if you really want to know what the best physical traits are both gay and straight women said an attractive smile and nice eyes were the most important physical features a partner can have they went a little further and this kind of where it gets funny uh straight women chose an average sized penis not a large one followed by a short hair large hands an attractive back whatever that means muscular arms and facial hair gay women chose average breasts as the next most important feature followed by an average buttocks an attractive back again and long hair average body types were actually the most popular with 44.7 percent of women preferring it fit and athletic bodies were second with 34.8 percent of the votes and finally only 2.5 percent of women globally prefer to a very muscular body type so if you don’t feel like you’re an attractive person or that you have Dad bod fret not because kindness compassion and support are the traits that you can cultivate for your perfect match and you can start by not commenting something stupid good luck I believe in you I’m Anna Akana thank you to the patrons who supported today’s video and thank you to Daddy Squarespace for sponsoring today’s episode listen daddy Squarespace is kind daddy Squarespace is life and he makes it easy for creators to monetize their content and expertise in a way that fits their brand so with member areas you can unlock a new Revenue stream for your business and free up time in your schedule by selling access to gated content like videos online courses or newsletters like mine plus online booking and scheduling is available making it easier than ever for clients to schedule classes or sessions and they have easy access to your calendar so they can reschedule online taking all the hassle out of coordinating those schedules from you if you’re a content creator like myself and you utilize video they also have video Studio where you can create Pro level videos effortlessly and then that app helps you make and share engaging content so you can tell your story grow your audience and drive those sales head to squarespace.com for a free trial and whenever you’re already to launch go to squarespace.com Anna and use code Anna for 10 off your first purchase of a website or domain …