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being single and happy means accepting that there are different standards for the single woman than there are for her attached sister for example a married woman at a wedding sobbing is thought to be a sweet thing a single woman at a wedding sobbing is thought to be desperate a married woman with a puppy his normal single woman with a puppy is broody and desperate once you’ve accepted that there are completely different standards for women who have a man and women who don’t then you’ll be fine there’s one relationship we’ve all had that we should have ended a lot sooner than we did and that is the going nowhere boyfriend you can spot the going nowhere boyfriend because he always uses the first person singular never we or us he doesn’t own a photograph of you he doesn’t know anything about your job and he gets sulky when he has to see your family spotting the going nowhere boyfriend is key to finding the going somewhere boyfriend there’s one simple rule that a lot of us forget and that’s if you want to have sex you need to dress with sex in mind that does not repeat not mean guessing men’s fantasies because that is a no-win situation number one you have to dress in a way that makes you feel sexy or it won’t work number two who can guess men’s fantasies they’re all so different that said most men like a nice set of matching underwear and i’ve never met a man who genuinely likes a polo necklace we all know how to meet a man you walk into a room you say hello but are you really ready to meet a man or do you have as i did a long list of preconditions for example no beards no job in the city no brown shoes the trouble with this list of preconditions is that every man can sense it and that makes you a very forbidding prospect there are a couple of key indicators that this man is the one number one there’s a sense of forward velocity he wants you to meet his friends he wants to meet your family secondly all the conversations that are sent to make new couples cringe about babies about marriage about previous relationships suddenly don’t embarrass you there are lots of other ways of telling that this man is the one but those are the two key indicators you …