the scrambler method
a lot of guys ask what can i say to a girl to make her fall in love well in this video i’m gonna share five things that you can say to make a woman really fall for you now i’ll warn you a few of these tips may sound weird or counter-intuitive but there’s very specific psychology behind every technique that i’m going to share today as i’ll explain in a minute hi my name is bobby rio and what i found coaching guys for the past 13 years is that when a guy has feelings for a girl he’s more likely to say the wrong things than he is to say things that actually cause her to become more attracted to him and to fall in love for instance a lot of times when a guy has these feelings for a girl he has the urge to compliment her a lot now i get it right i’ve been there i know that feeling but when it comes to complimenting a woman two things are critically important first is that you make her feel like she’s earned the compliment let me explain what i mean by that this means that instead of blurting out compliments all at once or every time you see her which not only loses effectiveness but it actually starts to annoy a girl it should appear to a woman that you’re slowly falling for her that you’re slowly realizing the special things you like about her like she’s winning you over day by day now the second part of it is that compliments work better when you complement something that she feels is unique to her personality and not a general compliment on her looks or her eyes or whatever if a woman has really nice eyes how many guys do you think have already told her that do you want to be lumped into that category or do you want to go deeper where she feels like you’re seeing her and admiring the real her that other guys miss here’s something really powerful there is something that i teach called the golden mirror and there’s a few ways to do it but here’s one that you can start with make a compliment directly related to a woman’s dream so i’ll give you an example so say she wants to be a psychiatrist you could say to her you really are easy to talk to and i could totally see you being the type of person that people just want to share information with i almost feel like i have already told you things that i never tell anyone okay now a good thing to do is end it by saying something like too bad you’re such a dork because that breaks the tension and it brings things back to a more playful level and stops it from getting too serious and i’ll explain why that’s important in a minute now in addition to validating something important to her it also does something very important for you it communicates to the woman that you are the selector and you’re not the select d what do i mean by that most guys will settle for anything they can get and when you let a woman know that you’re actually sizing her up she’ll be the one trying to impress you she’ll become addicted to impressing you and the more she finds herself trying to impress you the more invested she becomes in you and the more likely she is to fall in love with you okay next so women are what i would like to call meaning makers which means a girl is always looking for the deeper meaning behind what you’re doing or what you’re saying to her so as an example if you show up for a date with her and you’ve got a bouquet of roses and you’ve got reservations at a super fancy restaurant the meaning that she might make is wow he’s super serious about me already maybe he’s not used to dating a woman like me which is why you have to be careful right you have to be conscious of the meaning she might be making of your actions or the words that you’re saying without you even realizing it but what’s also important to understand is that for women the harder the meaning is to decipher the more invested she becomes in figuring you out i always tell my clients if a woman figures you out too soon it’s over women don’t want a sure thing or a predictable guy they also don’t want a guy who doesn’t give them a mental challenge women crave a mental challenge this is why anything that you do that’s ambiguous anything the girl can’t quite understand will lead her to being more and more interested in you because she’ll spend more and more time thinking about you so if you can do things that send mixed messages like telling her you like her and then sort of pushing her away from you this keeps her mind trying to figure out what’s going on here and that mental challenge for her is extremely addicting there’s also a hand holding technique that i teach guys that you can use to give her mixed signals that makes her curious and excited and turned on all at the same time i’ll explain that technique in a minute but first i do want to say like anything else if these techniques are used too much they become worthless so they must be used sparingly and only at the right moments it took a lot of trial and error but i discovered a very specific order that makes them even more effective i’ll tell you about that in a second but first here’s another tip use her name several times in a conversation with her as you make eye contact as you’re talking to her even though on the surface it’s really innocent right it creates a sense of intimacy between you and her now if you’ve ever had a woman hold eye contact and use your name you probably know what it means it creates a little bit of an electric spark right and it builds up tension because it taps into that meaning making tendency of hers to start thinking right what’s going on here is something going on between us okay the next technique is something called future projecting and there’s a lot of different ways that you can do this but here’s a fun one so after you take a picture with a girl right you’re taking a picture with her jokingly say damn we’d make some good looking babies and then move on to another topic now what you did right because what you did right there is you anchored a future with her in her mind and as a bonus you made her imagine sleeping with you now here’s a tip that involves what you don’t say stop telling her what you think she wants to hear many guys will talk a woman out of feeling attraction even talking her out of falling in love especially if you start telling her exactly how you feel about her too soon telling her is bad because it takes the magic the suspense the mystery the tension and that mental challenge out of the situation it pops the balloon it kills the chemistry when you say to a woman very early on i like you in a in her head the woman hears he’s admitting to me that he likes me which gives me all the power which for some strange reason makes me not like him as much anymore now there’s a lot of reason psychology reasons behind this but every woman’s biggest fantasy is the day when she finally tells a guy her feelings about him and when you tell her your feelings first or too soon you’re robbing her of that special moment of that dream every woman that falls in love goes through the same exact process and when you know the process you can take her through it and she’ll think it was her idea to fall for you have you ever heard the saying we love to buy but we hate to be sold this is why everything needs to be under the radar so she feels like it’s her decision to chase you because if she senses that you’re trying to convince her to like you or manipulate her to like you she’ll subconsciously put the brakes on pull back and a lot of times she won’t even know why she’s rejecting you but she’ll just have a bad feeling about things you cannot convince a woman to like you and if you try you’ll sound weak you’ll sound needy and you will sound very desperate your job is to help her come to that conclusion on her own and you do that through a mix of giving her the feeling that she’s winning you over and being the mental challenge that she creates see there’s an inherent biological difference in the way that men and female brains are wired and instead of letting it confuse you which it does to 99 of the guys out there learn to use it to your advantage so they’ll become interested and fall in love with you see as i mentioned earlier on their own these techniques are powerful but when you do them in a very specific order she can’t help but fall in love even if you’re not her type or even if she’s already rejected you or sees you as a friend so i have a slightly longer video where i map out the exact technique and the specific steps that you can take to get her chasing you instead of the other way around it is vitally important that you know exactly how to go from one step to the next with a woman in a way that always leaves her wanting more always leaves her wanting more and that’s what i explain in the next video how to move things forward in an under the radar way that makes her feel like she’s winning you over and when you do this it’s a lot easier to turn her into your girlfriend because it feels like her idea what i also explain is that even if you’ve already messed up you can turn things around you can erase those mistakes from her mind so you have a second chance to stop her from pulling away or to get out of the friend zone so if you want a sort of phd on this right where we break down each of the phases and give you exactly what you need to do then i suggest checking out the scrambler seminar if you haven’t already because we go through each phase with example after example of how to do this because like i said most guys think of the surface level stuff right well i won’t text her back right away well that’s that’s sort of basic right that’s predictable it’s what every guy does so it has no effect on her what we teach is the psychology of love and attraction and a woman’s real idea of romance you want to get to levels and levels deeper that’s where that deep attraction forms that’s where she feels like she’s falling in love so you can click the link below and check it out leave us a comment and also hit subscribe 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