available women
hi cher seven I’m back okay so today we’re going to be talking about women who are two available women who are over available women who invite themselves women who text first women who make the first move women who take the role of you know initiating things okay I y’all probably already know I don’t believe in it I say don’t do it it’s not worth it and the reason I say it’s not worth it it’s because if you initiate things if you’re the one always calling texting making plans being available whenever they call answering on the first five seconds that they takes you and this isn’t it you’re too available and you become boring and old news quickly okay you’re not a challenge and men like challenges believe it or not they like easy women too but after they’re finished using those easy women then they remember that girl that’s the challenge and then they go ahead and go for her next because I still can’t get her I’ve got this girl this girl this girl cuz they were easy but the one I really want I can’t even get you know she didn’t pay me any much it takes back you know mmm why so they’re gonna go all out for that girl they’re gonna be like what is she want what you have to do what’s a funny joke I can text her maybe she’ll text back if I if I make her laugh you know they’re going through all the stuff in their mind oh she won’t go out with me I I tried to invite her to the nicest restaurant she don’t like that kind of food so now they have to actually think and invest time and what does this girl like you know they need to pay attention to you you know if they watch you online and did pay attention to what kind of food you pose the places you like to go so they can say oh hey do you want to go out to such and such place and hey if that’s your favorite place you might just say yeah so they have to actually work put an effort and get to know you time researching you it’s and you’re a challenge and once you get something that you have worked very hard for it’s not so easy to let go because you spend time money effort you become emotionally invested and trying to get this person okay so ladies if you’re answering on the first ring if you’re texting back without you know thinking and texting back in the same minute if you’re saying yes to everything he asks you if you tell him your whole life story there’s no mystery to you he’s gonna bury me quick okay you have to always stay a challenge and change it up when he figures out what you like stop liking it and start liking something else so then it’s more of a challenge I’m trying to tell you I’ve been married for a long time it was the same person forever you still don’t know every date you know every two weeks I change you got to keep up you got to pay attention you got to get together because when you when you’re constantly challenged in life you’re always improving as well so you’re also making this person a better man like you’re making them more attentive you’re making them more thoughtful you’re making them more considerate so these are all the qualities you win domain anyway right so if they have to do all these things to impress you because you’re batting down everything that comes from them and they have to keep trying harder and after they go off like a lot of women this is this is where I women mess up they’ll get jealous if the guy starts stops paying them attention for a little while they’ll be right back as soon as they find the easy girl get what they want from her get bored of her and then they’ll be right back to you because they could never get you that’s not what they wanted they thought they would help them or satisfy them it was too easy to blah and they’re still thinking about you while they’re with them they like dang how come it was so easy to get this girl but I couldn’t get that one you know now they’re insulted and they’re like paying well why didn’t she want me good enough for her or something so they’re going to go ahead and leave the easy girl not call her back goes throughout and go back to the girl who challenged them this is the type of women men marry women who challenge them okay I promise you if you are not challenged if somebody doesn’t have to work hard for you if somebody doesn’t have to go out of their way for you they’re probably not the type of person that wants to mirror you okay because you can trick that you can even trick a man into being like this over you if they probably weren’t going to be this way over you anyway it’s mind games all of the mental you guys so you might have like a situation where you’re dating a guy he keeps going back to the same girl and she’s like not all that but she doesn’t take any of his crap she tells him off she says no it’s because men like challenges okay she doesn’t do everything you do she doesn’t do this she doesn’t support him she doesn’t support his dream she because she knows some of them dreams are stupid and that this is the real world and in order to be with me you need to have this business of that you know so you know well the easy convenient woman will do all this this and that for the guy he knows in the back of his mind that’s not going to make him into a better man so consciously he knows that it’s not gonna help him he knows his other girl over here his wife material and what she says what make him a better man will push him into his greatness she’s not settling for mediocre he can’t stay the fame average dude and be with her he has to step up his game to be with her so in the back of his mind he’s like okay well whoever she ends up with is gonna be better than me and I can’t have that so if I really want this girl I gotta become better or I gotta do better and so I’ll leave the easy girl who did everything for him and his mediocrity and goal for this girl who wouldn’t settle for okay and by the time he gets this girl he’s gonna be a better man he’s gonna have stepped up his game done a B C and D whatever it took to get her gonna be a changed person it’s gonna be doing things for her that he would never think of doing for you okay he’s gonna be buying her gifts well you never even got a birthday gift okay why because men like challenges and if you fear losing a man because you don’t want to do what they want to do then that’s part of not being able to play the game okay you’re afraid to play you’re afraid to play because you fear losing and if you fear losing then that means you don’t think you’re good enough or you’re worth it you know there’s two type of women the ones who know exactly what they want and how to get it the ones who don’t know what they want and don’t know how to get okay there’s nice women and there’s women who are challenges which which one gets wiped up which one has the better lifestyle which one has what they want in life the woman who challenges okay a man can get a woman like this just like a woman can get them in like that to sleep with them to do whatever but they cannot get someone to commit to them and marry them unless they blow their mind feel like there’s no other there’s no replacement I can’t do any better than this this is it okay you can’t get those feelings with a woman that’s going to do everything you ask when you ask how you ask cuz you get bored you were like okay thank you you know guys get 40 and they want the woman who won’t do stuff like that for them because it’s a challenge okay so guys I know guys are gonna chime in and say no that’s just not true you’re giving good it is true okay it is true you know why because when you we have a good girl and she does everything right you’re always looking at the girl at the side of your eye and wondering about her I wonder why she’s not paying attention to you and wondering if you could have got her if you didn’t have her you know and then she ignores you because you’re not a tight now you’re more intrigued with this type of person now you’re looking at her why because guys are never satisfied in a situation where everything is freely given if you’re worried about your woman leaving you and if she’s gonna fuss and fight with you tonight or if what you got her for her birthday was good enough you won’t have time to be looking over here at this chick you know if you’re worried about me gonna get something that from your woman or if you know you picked out the right flowers or whatever and if she’s gonna be happy with where you taking her for dinner tonight because you know she’s crazy you’re gonna be looking at this girl over here you know cuz you’re gonna be too worried about this girl okay when your attention and focus is on a challenge you’ll have time to look at other stuff okay you’re focused on the challenge so women if you’re too easy if you’re too nice to be too gullible if you to this and you to that chances are you’re probably going to be ditched ghost and you know by these guys and they’re gonna keep going back to the warm woman who don’t want nothing to do with them and who’s really probably just playing the game you know sometimes women do have a plan and they’re like I want him to do a B C and D before I even go on a date with him you know he has to get this he has to get that he has to get this he has to get that and so this man what some of these men were working months just to get one date with a woman you know to be like dang you know the woman will keep it friendly they’ll keep them in the friend zone and they’ll kind of tease them a little bit like you when you get you get that convertible call me on a rat you know these might seem like gold diggers but these are techniques that women do to you know get the type of men that they really want you know oh yeah when you get your new car give me a ride I see you you know um and those guys will call those girls when they get the new car there’s like oh come Rob come take a ride with me you know they’ll scoop her up before they even tell you they bought a new car you won’t even know they bought a new car until you see them driving it okay so I’m just being honest and I’m being real I know it’s so funny a lot of guys have flipped the script these days and what about love y’all didn’t care about love what five ten years ago y’all really don’t care about love when y’all are trying to date anyway okay what’s about is getting what you want getting the type of person you want in your life compatible the person that’s going to treat you I do nice things for you and who you know you want to be around who’s not going to bore you okay dating is supposed to be exciting and fun and keep you on your toes all the time it’s not supposed to be predictable boring and bland okay which is which is what happens when the person is too easy okay that’s why they get dumped quick so y’all keep it interesting fun switch it up be a challenge to these guys because that’s what they really like they’re going to say otherwise because they want to get in with easy real quick but as soon as they’re finished with that person they’re on back to the the challenging woman and one day they’re going to get one because they’re going to know the game so good they’re going to figure it out but they’re not going to settle with one of these easy women they’re always going to go for the ones that they could never get okay and if you don’t believe me look at all the celebrities who dated these type of women the good you know the DAP ride-or-die and as soon as they blew it and got famous because they couldn’t get these type of challenging chicks that’s what they go straight to okay so I’ll leave you all with that peace I’ll see y’all later hi …